asking is a chore now..LOL!

i realize something today, in this world of working life if you want something to be done quickly and in your way, all you need to do is ASK. note that i say ask and not tell. tell is demanding. the person will do the job unwillingly and scolding u under her breath while doing it. no one like to be boss around. asking is a different story. u gave the person a choice to reject the task. i bet nine out of ten ppl would not reject because it will then be considered rude. ppl here are too polite. its in our culture. just hope u dun meet any bitches around. if u do, then watever that i write above dun matter anymore cos bitches are a whole different world in them. the best way to tackle a bitch is to be a bitch urself.

anyway back to my point, i used to be cool if u throw any task to me, i will do it for u. then ppl think i m some machine that can solve everything for them. just throw at me and everything will be done. it then become a norm for them to throw all their problems at me. helping them is good but too much help is just gonna make them a weaker person. so i say no. they started to use their brain trying to make me do it. its a good progress as a 'no' to them already start their brain engine. i say no again and i never hear from them anymore. so ppl pls say no if u dont/cant/unwilling to do it. its better to please urself than to please others.

now i m like a bugger. i need my work to be done and since i m in a team, i will ask till i get the things done. u know like how u wan them to give ur stuff attention 1st. thats wat i m doing. bug! bug! bug! LOL!!