thoughts

hmm..been thinking lately..if someone hit u..will u hit back?? or u'll forgive them?? i think i'll automatically forgive them due to my non aggressive and non competetive nature..but if the person kept hitting again n again..then would u still forgive them?? if life is bad then y turn it on someone else?? y cant things be sort out by having a good talk..by expressing how one's feel inside n out rather than keeping it all in and making the situation more complicated..and more akward..if keeping all in and not showing then its fine cos everything will look normal as if there's ntg..no problem at all..but keeping all in and showing in a unhealthy way..wat expected next will also be unhealthy..sometimes i juz wish that living in an island all by urself wasnt that bad as u think..cos then u r in control of urself and there's no commitment u have to make to whoever u think u should..some commitments are make because u think u should but actually not..in other words things get so heavy that u juz wanna release the rock on ur back and fly away juz like that..isnt that true for some of us?? well for me..so true..